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Benjamin F. Pinder Jr.
February 21, 1932 ~ January 7, 2018 (age 85) 85 Years Old Light a Candle
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Message from Sandra Bearse
January 11, 2018 7:13 PM
So very sorry to all of you for your loss--
Message from Dave Welsh, Chincoteague Island, VA
January 10, 2018 2:13 PM
Pat and Diane, so very sorry for you loss of of your dear Ben. Saturday night's Vigil Mass Intention at St. Andrew the Apostle Church here on the Island is for my Dear Kay and for your Ben. A donation will also be mad to the St. Vincent DePaul Society. May the Blessings of our Lord be with you all.
Dave
Dave
Message from Lunenburg
January 10, 2018 10:17 AM
Pat, So sorry for your loss. Pat Anderson Rill
Message from Nancy Pierce
January 9, 2018 8:55 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. We will keep your family in our prayers.
A candle was lit by Nancy Pierce
on January 9, 2018 8:53 PM
Message from Linda Bacon Bollman
January 9, 2018 8:10 PM
I'm so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. I met him at the 50th reunion and know your loss is great. Stay strong and kind. Linda
Message from Eric
January 9, 2018 6:58 PM
Pat and Diana, I am so sorry. Ben was a part of my life for many years. I always enjoyed visiting with him.
A candle was lit by Joan Bouvier Hall
on January 9, 2018 2:49 PM
Message from George and Mary Lue Mueller
January 9, 2018 10:06 AM
Dear Pat, Ben's brother, Jackie, and younger sister, Beth, and daughter, Diane,
The passing of Ben brought back some precious memories of our young and formative years on Inverness Road and Perth Ave. Ben's mother, Libby Pinder, was my mother's best friend as they both worked hard to bring up us boys to be respectful and proper during those difficult war years. Libby Pinder was the "Den Mother" of us Cub Scouts and did a superior job in her living room.
One Christmas I received a Morse Code system and immediately strung a wire to my buddy Ben's house so we could send messages with dot and dashes and our code book. Ben and Jackie were my best friends before they moved away. Mr. Pinder was quite strict. I remember eating with the Pinders and Mr. Pinder sharply told Ben and Jackie to stop "smacking" their lips while eating. I was not sure what smacking your lips was......... but I sure hoped I was not smacking my lips. One of my fondest memories was when Mr. Pinder took all us kids to the bowling alley to do our best with "duck pins".
Mary Lue and I very much appreciate the visit by Ben and Pat several years back. We quite enjoyed Ben taking us all to the Air Force Museum at the former Sampson Air Force Base and remembering the past.
We want the whole Pinder family to know they have had a special place in our lives and our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Ben, and his family certainly was a special part of my life growing up in New Rochelle. We very much appreciate Pat thinking of us and giving us the difficult call reporting on Ben's passing. I will now send word to Ray and Bert McCabe who grew up next to the Pinders and now live in California.
Sincerely,
George and Mary Lue Mueller
The passing of Ben brought back some precious memories of our young and formative years on Inverness Road and Perth Ave. Ben's mother, Libby Pinder, was my mother's best friend as they both worked hard to bring up us boys to be respectful and proper during those difficult war years. Libby Pinder was the "Den Mother" of us Cub Scouts and did a superior job in her living room.
One Christmas I received a Morse Code system and immediately strung a wire to my buddy Ben's house so we could send messages with dot and dashes and our code book. Ben and Jackie were my best friends before they moved away. Mr. Pinder was quite strict. I remember eating with the Pinders and Mr. Pinder sharply told Ben and Jackie to stop "smacking" their lips while eating. I was not sure what smacking your lips was......... but I sure hoped I was not smacking my lips. One of my fondest memories was when Mr. Pinder took all us kids to the bowling alley to do our best with "duck pins".
Mary Lue and I very much appreciate the visit by Ben and Pat several years back. We quite enjoyed Ben taking us all to the Air Force Museum at the former Sampson Air Force Base and remembering the past.
We want the whole Pinder family to know they have had a special place in our lives and our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Ben, and his family certainly was a special part of my life growing up in New Rochelle. We very much appreciate Pat thinking of us and giving us the difficult call reporting on Ben's passing. I will now send word to Ray and Bert McCabe who grew up next to the Pinders and now live in California.
Sincerely,
George and Mary Lue Mueller
A candle was lit by Staff of Wright-Roy Funeral Home
on January 8, 2018 1:55 PM
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